Unfortunately my friend, I think we mistimed getting old and relaxing into an easy life by a couple of decades.
I think that people forget that democracy can work well, but it needs to be continuously and rigorously defended constantly because there will always be humans who will ruthlessly pursue outsized influence over others. Democracy has huge flaws (it requires an educated population) but it's still going to be better than any other system of governance... but it needs to be defended every single day.
Trump is not the lesser of two evils, he is the result, I don't know, 70 years of religious extremists wanting to control others. Trump is absolutely worse than any other option because he clearly fears no consequences and doesn't care who his decisions hurt.
Free speech no longer exists in US, the actions against Rumeysa Ozturk perfectly prove that. I don't personally think the crazy is being brushed aside, I think, by design, there is so much crazy that its overwhelming all who would stand up to it.
My unhinged conspiracy theory is that the Trump Admin is deliberately trying to cause a global recession and tank both the stock market and USD, in order for the billionaires to pick up cheap assets... at which point tariffs will all disappear and they'll own a higher percentage of wealth than ever.
It's tragic and funny to me that the US has 900 billion guns or whatever, to be able to stand up to the government, and yet all those gun owners have been convinced that all the pain being caused now and in the future is in their best interests. It's both evil and genius.